Man in the household.

"I am the only one working in this house you know?"

This is always heard at home by my Dad.

Yep. I know, we know that he is the sole breadwinner of the family. But, he often exploits it and use it to put pressure on the family. Well, my mum is a natural hot head and stubbon. Actually, both are!

How can things be solved when two hot headed (creatures?) meet each other and starts wanting the other party to do things the way they want?

So what if you gain the world and lose your soul?

Your soul is your family, friends and God!

If you can't even handle family, how can you or me become a greater person?

They often quarrel just because of trival stuff. I just don't get it!

If I'm really that bad, I would've shouted "Hey kids! stop whinning!"

But, I'm lost at what should I do. Sometimes I really thought to myself, "they are parents?!" (in a 3rd party perspective)

Well, I'm glad I came to know christ. Otherwise, I think I would've been affected by their "whinning" and prolly become some part-time ah beng or quit schooler or even, suicide.

Man, I tell ya. If you are in my situation, your brains might just pop instantly, anytime!

From these things that happened, I told myself that I must not be like them and for the better, I have to know where I am in God and I should know how should I conduct myself in the future, in my own family.

I should be the MAN that I should be. Born a man, but you can choose to be one or not.

I will definitely do my best for my family. Eventhough I am the bread winner, I should also help out with housework. Guys! Gentlemen! You should be the one working, helping and holding onto the whole family! Not destroying nor do the I-am-the-sole-breadwinner thing. So what if you are tired?! Do what gentlemen do!

For wives, of course they are the support job in the family. They support the husband and provide comfort for them, not nagging at them to help you or whatever when they come back from work! The gentlemen should know what they should do, if not, give them a good nagging.

Woot. Its late and I've gotta go to work tomorrow.

Be a man! Do the right thing!